Thursday, November 16, 2006

do i really need to give every blog a title?

Giving my posts titles is to much pressure. Most of the time i just ramble on and wander very far from the title subject or i feel a block after thinking of a title. Solution: write the blog then decide what to title it. Oh shut up comes to mind right now.

My husband suprised me and made a change. Depending how you look at it it can been seen as a big one or a small one. He tends to be comfortibly uncomfortible most of the time anyway and likes the same ole same ole. He had an opportunity to switch his full time job [he has two jobs at two different hospitals] to his per diem hospital and his per diem job to his full time hospital. Big move for him. So he took it. He weighed all the pros and cons of both and decided the 100 dollars a paycheck less would be worth the move. This way when, not if, his car self destructs his full time positions is closer and it will be easier to be a one car family for a while. One of the reasons he felt it would be a good move is because it gives him more time to sleep and be able to do things like go to sporting events etc. That to me is a bigger change then the job move. I think he is finally realizing that he is missing so much and the kids are getting so much older and will be gone soon. He figured he couldnt use the excuse of i have to work so much to keep the family afloat anymore. There is always time for both if its really important to you. I saw the first realization of this in his face when he was watching his son's football game and the excitment and joy in his eyes was priceless. Well there is hope always hope. ttfn

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